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Likewise, most people with Asperger’s have some aversion to being touched. I know there are spouse who can’t stand to touch their spouse, to hug or hold them.When they have sex, it’s genitals only touching, because anything else is just too much.” that an adult with AS / Hfa typically exhibits overwhelming skills in wooing in the infatuation period.Many NT-AS marriages seem to quickly become celibate.In her research on sex in NT-AS relationships Maxine Aston found that fifty per cent of the couples reported, that there was no sexual activity within their relationship.Sensory issues is an area that can be very problematic for an AS individual and may constitute a serious problem in the intimate and sexual relationship.The partner with AS can be hypersensitive to physical contact, body odor, taste and other sensory stimuli.This also applies to the part of the relationship that includes sex and romance: very often there is no sexual relationship at all; or the NT-partner feels as if she is the Mom of the partner, who behaves like an immature child in an adult’s body; or the female with Asperger’s in the relationship can become asexual, as soon as a child is born; or the middle-aged male-partner with Asperger’s (ASD) and a good academic career can’t understand why it is wrong to expose his private parts in public areas, if he feels like it.These are some of the confusing scenarios which arise regularly in NT/ASD marriages.
Asperger’s Syndrome seriously affects the sexual intimacy and life in the relationship and often causes great emotional pain for the neurotypical (NT) partner.
This topic is not easy to talk about for neurotypical (NT) spouses of an adult with Asperger’s Syndrome/ autism (ASD).
Their intimate life with their loved one in marriage is private.
”In fact, there was no affection or tactile expression whatsoever.
That is quite high when one takes into account that some of the respondents had not been together for more than two years”, Aston says, explaining: “ it is often the male client with AS who has withdrawn totally from the physical side of the relationship.” what this article is about.