Dating tips for widows
This is likely to be the result of mixed feelings on her part.
As a woman she may want to seek out your company but as a former spouse, she may still be battling feelings of guilt over dating other men.
The death of a spouse is heart-breaking at any time but when one is young and full of plans for the future, such an eventuality can leave a woman feeling that the ground has slipped from beneath her feet.
If you have come to know such a woman who has been widowed quite young and feel yourself attracted to her, here are a few things to keep in mind when dating her.
Help your date to forget that she is widow even if it is just for a couple of hours.
Make her feel special like any other woman out on a date. If she wishes to talk of her loss, let her but move on to another topic when she is ready.
Consider implications in case things get serious However if you do want a relationship with her, go ahead but with patience and understanding.
Also there may be unexplained fluctuations in moods.
A perfectly romantic moment between you two may suddenly be ruined by a memory or an object having past associations.