It's the opposite actually: When you DO get into a relationship, you want to do it perfectly. Part of that means taking their needs and wants into consideration when making decision, which is just something you aren't interested in doing right now.You want to move where you want, do what you want with your weekends, not be obligated to someone else's obligations. Being selfish and holding onto your autonomy is NOTHING to be guilty about.So for anybody looking for a little bit of affirmation or resolve, here are some perfectly good reasons you might be choosing to hold off on pursuing romantic things right now—and why that's totally, perfectly OK.What most people don't understand is that you aren't opting out of relationships right now because you hate them.Write a shopping list "I'm looking for someone who's tall, funny, intelligent, kind, loyal, romantic, sociable..." For readers, they're both dull to read and incredibly daunting. "I'd love to meet someone with whom to explore far-flung places," or "Dining alone is getting dull. " Be intimidated by "dos and don'ts" lists like these Just upload a brief profile and several nice photos, and get started. In fact, regularly updating your profile keeps you active on the site and leads to more matches, so see your profile as a work in progress.If you're a single woman, more than anyone else, you live under constant pressure to justify your life and your choices.
It means compromise that, for some people at certain points in their life, isn't always worth it in the end.DO Use a photo Profiles with pictures receive 16 times more responses than those without. Women who look directly into the camera for their profile picture receive far more responses than women who look away. We don't know why - could it be women prefer a more brooding, distracted man?The most successful photos are taken in daylight, using an SLR camera (not a smartphone), and show just one person, not a group. Include a photo of you engaged in an interesting activity Like playing an instrument, a sport, or in an unusual location.They all require work, but not all of them have a real, effective payout.They don't all end in happy, monogamous bliss (if that's what you want), or with a loving partner who respects you.