Be a mysterious woman dating

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So although I’ve tweaked my personal filter a bit, I still refuse to call myself “mysterious,” because I’m just not.

But I’ve found a good middle ground that I feel comfortable in, and it’s had everything to do with me — not the men I’m dating, or the bad advice of Charlotte York.

Things ended pretty swiftly after that, which is why I started my cursed experiment in mysteriousness. I no longer try to play coy, because I'm really bad at that.

But I also don't tell a guy everything that's on my mind.

During the “how to be a French girl” internet craze of 2015, the main thread of seducing like our Parisian counterparts was “be mysterious.” And today, there are still countless blogs and advice columns out there that tell women that they should maintain an air of mystery on dates. While there are some things that I keep a little close to the chest, on the whole, I’m an open book. This is probably why the concept bothers me so much.

It immediately assumes that, in order to keep a potential love interest's attention, I've got to play a little game that involves siphoning out information about myself, drip by drip.

This is probably why the phrase bothers me so much.

Things were going great with us, but I was struggling to find an apartment to move into post-college, and the stress was starting to get to me.

And to be clear, that isn't so that he'll like me more — it's for self-preservation.

In order to keep myself from getting hurt, I've had to learn when and how to share certain things. It's about practicing good judgement and learning that, sometimes, it's better to keep things to yourself.

In my many years as a spiritual advisor I have noticed a reoccurring theme with women. She does not give every detail of her life to the man that she meets.

They want to love and give all of themselves to the man that they love; the problem is giving all of you leaves no mystery for the man. Perhaps you have observed a woman that is not particularly beautiful, but she always has men attracted to her and wanting to be with her. She does not drop everything the moment he calls just for him.

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